The Herald's Rest

I'm so sorry I had to join to make this a thing OTL

Um...So. If you know that one guy there's a big chance you might know me because he's made it his mission to include me in all his bullshit with his weird daddy kink thing. Otherwise, uhh, well met, I suppose. I'm Fray, soon to be 23, bilingual Canadian, and tired of being roped into he who must not be named's fucking tantrums. Naesaki was really kind enough to provide me with a link and I don't think I have ever been this relieved of a place that excludes that one guy, as mean as it might sound. 

But seriously seven plus years of doing damage control can really take a toll on your mind. Please don't kindly deal with it the way I did IT'S NOT WORTH IT.

What is there really to say about me though? I mean, I draw, I write, I play video games, I try to cope with stuff like social anxiety and depression, and...I don't do much else? It's kind of sad. But I'm willing to try things out if it can help me better myself. 

Err...You can ask me stuff if you want? Because I have no idea how to keep this post going I'm really sorry. Though I hope I can make a few friends.

Oh, thank you so much! Honestly I was very hesitant to begin with, I was never very active on that other place (especially after the removal of the TWD RP...) so I knew very few people to begin with and felt like I wouldn't quite belong...I really hope I can get to know you all better.

Hey Fray. Welcome

The only thing you need to know is not press that giant red button... it'll blow up half the Hall of the Gods and I don't want to put the effort in rebuilding it XD

Good... let's leave it as "you can't see it".

Danny Arseneau
we'd be screwed without you sometimes. big group hug to Mama Eliana ~ !! *hug*
(okay, I'm exagerating, but it's just because I respect you so much xD_
i hope you had a great day with your family
Mirage Calhoun
5/10, 8:28pm
Mirage Calhoun
Yes I did, thank you Danny - although after what I did to Moniker, I am not such a good Mother Eliana.
Danny Arseneau
5/10, 8:45pm
Danny Arseneau
Nah, he had to be reminded where the authority lies even though I am incompetent to the post.
his hatred should've been done through PMs and not in public, he was disrespecting our rules and i just became sassy over him
you did the right thing
Danny Arseneau
5/10, 8:47pm
Danny Arseneau
don't punish yourself for what you did. someone had to deal with him and i couldn't because it would've made me feel like i was doing this out of personal choice. i know it was a hard decision, but if you ever get into the same trouble with a member, me, bird and daniel will be there to make that important choice
Danny Arseneau
5/10, 8:47pm
Danny Arseneau
same as silver. it's never easy.
Today
Tom Wijenbergh
2:16am
Tom Wijenbergh
Don't make it sound like I'm the right man for the job here
Today
Danny Arseneau
5:37am
Danny Arseneau
we help one another, that's how we do things right?
Today
Tom Wijenbergh
8:54am
Tom Wijenbergh
Well yeah but I can't pick sides. Not easily
Danny Arseneau
9:39am
Danny Arseneau
I know what you mean. It's not always obvious to make a choice like that.
Though if things go sour and the boards get invaded by spammers like it happened a few years ago, I know you wouldn't hesitate to help us right?
all we need is to make sure people respect the rules we all decided for the boards and this include "even" us.
besides you got a good head on your shoulders and you know when to tell me when i'm doing something wrong -- even when i pout like a big baby, it's better to have a council than nothing at all lol
sounds like eliana is our queen and we are her knights
Danny Arseneau
10:13am
Danny Arseneau
I decided to spread some happiness today. forum.bioware.com/topic/553730-a-huge-thank-you-to-the-da-writing-team/ I do hope the writers will notice and that it will make them smile.

A Huge Thank You to the DA Writing Team - Scuttlebutt (Spoilers)
A Huge Thank You to the DA Writing Team - posted in Scuttlebutt (Spoilers): You dont get enough recognition for all your work through the games, the codex entries, the characters, the feels. I want to thank everyone who worked on this franchise so far, even though I dont know all of them by names I…
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Mirage Calhoun
10:18am
Mirage Calhoun
Danny, what I did to Moniker was wrong, and no amount of saying 'it's okay, it had to be done" will make it better. I definitely did not like the word used, but to ban him arbitrarily like that, without discussing it with anyone else was wrong, wrong, wrong. If one of the others had done that I would have been aggravated with them, as they were right to be aggravated at me. I have no idea what you are talking about when you mention Silver, and I don't want to know. I am going to emulate Tom, and not pick sides, just take each situation as it comes.
Danny Arseneau
10:20am
Danny Arseneau
I see. Sorry. What I meant is that I couldn'T ban him it would had make me seem like I wasn't caring about your feelings for him.
You are his friend after all.
Mirage Calhoun
10:21am
Mirage Calhoun
Yes, and we get along well now. If you don't mind, I would rather not talk about it any more. Still get mad at myself, and just want to forget about it. Thank you for understanding.
Danny Arseneau
10:21am
Danny Arseneau
still makes me feel bad.
Mirage Calhoun
10:24am
Mirage Calhoun
I know Danny, but once a situation has been resolved, it does not help anyone to bring it up after that.
Danny Arseneau
10:24am
Danny Arseneau
the situation has been quite awkward, i was trying to lighten things i just messed up
whenever i mess up i overthink and tend to put my foot in my mouth
Mirage Calhoun
10:25am
Mirage Calhoun
I can understand that Danny, but sometimes if you think you are going to mess up, just stop, take a step back, and think before you post.
Danny Arseneau
10:26am
Danny Arseneau
yeah yeah ... the fact i snapped back at him isn't better than what he did
i've always been told to stand my ground, so it came automatically
Mirage Calhoun
10:30am
Mirage Calhoun
No, Danny, what Moniker said was wrong - he acknowledged that, and was okay with his ban. Again, I was wrong to do what I did , and he was wrong to write the word he did. And I am done with the whole situation. It is over, Moniker and I are good friends again, and I will not talk about it. You can't always stand your ground automatically, you have to stop and think sometimes. There have been times I wanted to cuss out an individual, be it online, in real life, or in PMs, but I refrain because I don't want to hurt them, or hurt myself by being a person I don't want to be.
Danny Arseneau
10:30am
Danny Arseneau
understand your point of view
i*
the only reason why i didn't ban him was because I didn't want to upset anyone
i was like: "nope, not my problem anymore"
one way or another, it would have ended ugly
there's no easy choice
Mirage Calhoun
10:33am
Mirage Calhoun
Well, that is a decent attitude to take.
Danny Arseneau
10:33am
Danny Arseneau
i was trying my best, i feel like i failed again
Mirage Calhoun
10:33am
Mirage Calhoun
No, a hard choice is never an easy choice, but sometimes we have to make them.
Danny Arseneau
showing restrain has never been my forte in the past
this time i was like: "nope nope nope nope... i won't blow up..."
guh... but i see what you mean. i don't want to think about it anymore.
if moniker's alright and promises he won't come after me, i'm okay with him coming back sooner
i don't want to make him mad
Mirage Calhoun
Okay, so let us not talk about it anymore, okay? I think everyone in the BCB wants to forget about it.
And Moniker is definitely all right - he won't come after you. You can lift the ban any time.
alright. i'm lifting the ban effectively now
Okay, thank you. I have to go and do a few things, I will talk to you later. Have a good day Danny.

Also



2:07 "Small boobies will have their day!"

ROFL!

Are you messing with time again? I won't help you if you are... only Sen messes with time and that's because he's made plenty of holes within it.

Yes. Sen fucked Time itself.